Biased!!

y'day i met a couple, half brit half french. i realized that they are very biased about ethnicity. EU comprises of many small countries and from a distance they look more or less similar. But that's not true. inspite of so much similarity in their lifestyle, they find hell lot of things to differentiate, discriminate and discuss. We were discussing for almost 3 long hrs n they were taking about, y they dislike London, whats good n bad about France, Belgium. How are Spanish n polish n Portuguese. y they find Brit women weird...i was shocked...then they started asking about India on these lines...i was so confused what to say...i hv never analyzed on these lines n cant think on the spot. then the lady asked me how do i find London. I didn find this place that bad but was hesitant to say its fine, after so much of hate speech from her..i replied as long as i'm with my husband, i find every place good to live. She gave me a weird look. :-(( She has recently graduated in law n working in an American firm in France. Just think of it, an educated girl like her with all that bias n judgmental attitude. I was wondering weather she was being nice to me or KIND to me.

I wonder if everybody out there is so critical and judgmental or its just She.

Googly!!!

She always thought that She is the one for Him. He would use pun to express his feelings for a gal and She would think its about her. He would write poems on a gal and she would match it with herself. His verbosity knows no limit and so is her imagination. One day They walk different directions. She is upset. She feels guilty within. But still they talk.

One day He expresses grief at his failure on the personal front; she weeps within. He gets rid of his puns and narrates his heart out. This narration talks of His gf, a different gal similar to Her. He fails to make it with this different gal at the same time They walk different roads.
She is shocked at her stupidity. What a googly!!!
Its The End of Her as His gal and the beginning of Her as His closest friend. She is happy as she feels guilty no more.

Married - Life would never be the same again

I love sitting at the balcony, sipping tea and watching the cloudy sky, feeling the cold breeze and watching the rain pouring in. The fragrance of the wet soil gives a very fresh and soothing feel. The weather takes me down the memory lane, me and my dad sitting in the balcony and enjoying a similar weather in Jabalpur. I can then feel my eye lids are wet and my mind heavy, immensely missing my parents and those days which reside within me in sweet remembrance. Gone are those days and life would never be the same again.

Tofi and Tuppy

Tofi and Tuppy are almost made for each other.

Tuppy wants Tofi to be very caring, emotional, who always shelters tuppy from the external world. Tofi has those qualities but comes with few more unwanted qualities like short temperament, aggresively persuasive.

Tofi wants Tuppy to be very soft hearted, serene, obedient, kiddy and delicate in certain ways. Tuppy is exactly like that but comes with few more unwanted qualities like less expressive, emotionally vulnerable, over quiet and individualistic at times.

Both complain each other for the unwanted qualities but still are happy bcoz their fundamental (quality)requirements are met.

God bless Tofi and Tuppy!!!

This Feeling

It is this feeling that held to its limitations before

It is this feeling that kept the commitment strong and going

It is this feeling that now knows NO boundaries and is flying high

MTV Roadies

When i see the show, 2 things come to my mind -

1) It is a subset of MTV bakra. In MTV bakra, anybody can be a bakra but in Roadies, you have a fixed set of people who will be the bakras.

2) In case you have seen the movie 'Bheja Fry', its Raghu's way of Bheja Fry where few dumb females are made to entertain him every weekend.

I still watch it, entire credit goes to Ekta Kapoor.

Free Advising

I love giving advices. They are free of cost. I am smart enough to convince the other person on my point. I give advices on issues and situations to my friends, juniors, peers, in fact to any1 who seeks my advisory shelter. They think i am wise and helpful.
The nature of my advice can be critical, rude,kind, punishing and judgemental. When i am advising rude, punishing or judgemental, I take pride thinking that, i have the guts to speak out the truth, the taboo.
Lately, i discovered that when i'm actually into a situation, i end up making the wrong choices. If it were some1 else, i would have given the right advice. So i realized that to 'err is human', so lets not be so critical while advising rather be kind. Now-a-days, when somebody discusses a situation, i try to empathise and then talk. I have adopted a rather pragmatic, kind and realistic approach towards free advising.